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Dec 22, 2009
I have a friend named Monty Roberts who owns a horse ranch in San Ysidro. He has let me use his house to put on fund-raising events to raise money for youth at risk programs. The last time I was there he introduced me by saying, "I want to tell you why I let Jack use my house. It all goes back to a story about a young man who was the son of an itinerant horse trainer who would go from stable to stable, race track to race track, farm to farm and ranch to ranch, training horses. As a result, the boy's high school career was continually interrupted. When he was a senior, he was asked to write a paper about what he wanted to be and do when he grew up. "That night he wrote a seven-page paper describing his goal of someday owning a horse ranch. He wrote about his dream in great detail and he even drew a diagram of a 200-acre ranch, showing the location of all the buildings, the stables and the track. Then he drew a detailed floor plan for a 4,000-square-foot house that would sit on a 200-acre dream ranch. "He put a great deal of his heart into the project and the next day he handed it in to his teacher. Two days later he received his paper back. On the front page was a large red F with a note that read, `See me after class.' "The boy with the dream went to see the teacher after class and asked, `Why did I receive an F?' "The teacher said, `This is an unrealistic dream for a young boy like you. You have no money. You come from an itinerant family. You have no resources. Owning a horse ranch requires a lot of money. You have to buy the land. You have to pay for the original breeding stock and later you'll have to pay large stud fees. There's no way you could ever do it.¨ Then the teacher added, `If you will rewrite this paper with a more realistic goal, I will reconsider your grade.¨ "The boy went home and thought about it long and hard. He asked his father what he should do. His father said, `Look, son, you have to make up your own mind on this. However, I think it is a very important decision for you.¨ "Finally, after sitting with it for a week, the boy turned in the same paper, making no changes at all. He stated, `You can keep the F and I'll keep my dream.'"Monty then turned to the assembled group and said, "I tell you this story because you are sitting in my 4,000-square-foot house in the middle of my 200-acre horse ranch. I still have that school paper framed over the fireplace." He added, "The best part of the story is that two summers ago that same schoolteacher brought 30 kids to camp out on my ranch for a week." When the teacher was leaving, he said, `Look, Monty, I can tell you this now. When I was your teacher, I was something of a dream stealer. During those years I stole a lot of kids¨ dreams. Fortunately you had enough gumption not to give up on yours.¨"Don't let anyone steal your dreams. Follow your heart, no matter what.
Posted at 01:06 am by lovedragon
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Dec 17, 2009
Top 20 of the article web sites in 2009
How time flies! Looking at the calendar, 2010 is coming in a few days later. Let¨s look back the past twelve months, there must be many deep memories, unforgettable things and outstanding achievements you had got. Undoubtedly, the more knowledge you learn, the more achievement you would get. With the development of society, reading online is becoming a fashionable and effective way to learn what you need. OK, under such circumstances, good web sites would be useful for you to learn the knowledge. Top 20 of the article web sites in 2009 are introduced in the following article. No.1 http://www.articlecat.com No.2 http://www.articlerich.com No.3 http://www.articlesbase.com No.4 http://www.mycontentbuilder.com No.5 http://www.sirlook.com No.6 http://www.myfreearticlecentral.com No.7 http://www.jewelry1st.net No.8 http://www.amazines.com No.9 http://www.123articleonline.com No.10 http://www.articlesnatch.com No.11 http://www.series-of-articles.com No.12 http://www.everyonesarticles.com No.13 http://www.itechnoworld.com No.14 http://www.goarticles.com No.15 http://www.pieceabout.com No.16 http://www.articolando.com No.17 http://www.articlewisdom.com No.18 http://www.articlerack.com No.19 http://www.articlecounty.com No.20 http://www.articles4y.com Of course, this is my personal view, these sites I read, the content inside is rich, I would rather like it, good things should be shared, I also hope that you can enjoy them,I have already recommended to my friends they are very like it, maybe you will like it, you can see the following.If you come across any good web site, then remember that you want to share what can recommend to me, Thank you very much
Posted at 12:30 am by lovedragon
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Dec 16, 2009
Simply rush you gently into my world, Simple for you to stay quiet clear blue skies, I simply do not clear my palm paste in your palm, The spread of plague from the palm of warmth ... ... I remember the simple interest you Like to hear your words of plain cloth plain where the message of buried secrets; A simple Winn me to go back to moving forward to your Clear and transparent tears inside, but it has a gray tone of your shadow. A simple fragrance of jasmine petals, is your breath, Rou Rou's soft, faint infiltration of my soul, the shallow you inadvertently singing; Simple tunes, elegant Jin -- My life in Hong Bo, a Bay, the boat can stay in a rest Warm, swaying my dream of sails, Voyage Thanksgiving with your peers Miss you when you smile the most beautiful stars in the night sky flash ~ ~ in the flash Heart immortal beliefs cause you to accompany Maybe you quietly left, Quietly waiting for the re-clear blue sky. Leave my beautiful miss Nowhere to be placed, the lost can not afford to, pick up less than a Suspension sorry for her
Posted at 12:44 am by lovedragon
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Dec 14, 2009
[1] A tricky question in investing is how much of a role ethics should play in your stock selections.[2] Should you invest in companies that manufacture weapons? What about nuclear power? Alcohol? Gambling? Tobacco? Those are the "Big Five" in terms of ethical decisions. They tend to provoke the strongest emotions, and come up most often in discussions of ethical investing.[3] But the list could go on and on. Should you invest in companies that have been fined for polluting the environment? Companies that have been sued for racial discrimination? Companies that don't have women in key positions? Companies that do animal testing? Companies that sponsor sexually explicit TV shows or art exhibitions?[4] The world being what it is, too fine an ethical filter could quickly screen out almost every large company and many small ones.[5] I tend to be tolerant of most vices in life, and also in investing. I am currently seeking out defense stocks. I'm eyeing at least one nuclear-power stock, and am favorably disposed toward gambling stocks. There's no liquor stock I want to own, but if the numbers looked attractive, I'd buy one.Smoke-Free Zone[6] In my personal portfolio, the only industry I won't invest in is tobacco. Tobacco causes disease and suffering when used as intended, whereas most of the others cause problems only when they are abused.[7] Client portfolios are a different matter. When you are managing other people's money, your job is to maximize performance. We don't have any tobacco stocks at Dorfman Investments, but I'm on the stock selection committee for a money management firm, Dreman Value Management, that has tobacco holdings.[8] As for performance, the 80 "socially responsible" mutual funds tracked by Morningstar Inc., the Chicago research company, returned 15 percent a year on average in the five years through October. That compares to an 18 percent return for all U. S. stock funds, and 26 percent for the Standard & Poor's 500 Index during the same period.[9] At my firm, and many others, clients with their own separate accounts can specify whatever ethical restrictions they want. One of my clients doesn't want to own weapons stocks. For her, I won't buy stocks such as Lockheed Martin Corp., Litton Industries Inc., Cordant Technologies Inc. or Kaman Corp. But stocks of that type will be in many other clients' portfolios. [10] The question of whether military force can be used ethically is one of the oldest and most difficult in history. To me, Hitler and World War II are sufficient proof that maintaining a strong U. S. Military force is a moral act.[11] Some of my best friends disagree. To them, the ends do not justify the means. I asked one friend, who is a Quaker, what the U. S. should have done about Hitler. His response: "I don't know. But I believe we should have found an alternative other than force."[12] That is an intellectually honest position, but to me not persuasive. On the whole, I feel the world is a better place if the U.S. has rocket fuel (Cordant), defense electronics (Litton), and Seasprite naval helicopters (Kaman), than if we don't. Power Sources[13] Nuclear power is another issue that people feel strongly about. In the wake of Chernobyl and Three Mile Island, I can't argue that it's wrong to be concerned about the safety of nuclear plants. And yet, I believe people forget the hundreds of injuries and the massive pollution caused by oil-and coal-fueled electrical generating plants. Nuclear power, at least potentially, is a less polluting energy source than most of its competitors.[14] The green so of cutting hack on energy use strikes me as misguided. Economic opportunity and social justice are much easier to achieve in an expanding economy. And an expanding economy virtually requires abundant energy.[15] Alcohol, to some people, is the worst villain. And yet, when the nation tried to ban alcohol during prohibition, the experiment proved a failure. I can't resist adding that moderate drinkers have much lower death rates from heart attack than teetotalers.[16] There are no liquor stocks I want to own presently. But at the right price, I would own one. The Gambling Vice[17] Anita Green, the director of social research at Pax World Fund, the third-largest social responsibility mutual fund, recently referred to gambling as "a vice that inflicts crushing social costs on American society". Noting that seven of the largest 20 mutual funds in the U . S. hold one or more gambling stocks, she suggests that investors pick a fund that has sworn to avoid them--namely, her own.[18] Gambling, which Green opposes so strongly, is to me a pleasurable activity. I go to the racetrack, watch the pageantry of the horses, jockeys and silks, and enjoy the spectacle more because I have a $ 2 or $ bet on the outcome. I enjoy spending a day or two in Las Vegas or Atlantic City. But I go only once every year or two, and set myself a limit of $ 50 or $ 100 a day. When that's gone, I walk around and see the sights.[19] For better or worse, it appears that America is still moving in the direction of more gambling. So I think that casino and lottery stocks--issues like Scientific Games Holdings Corp., Mirage Resorts Inc. and Mandalay Resort Group--are good bets.[20] The impulse to invest ethically is praiseworthy, but I'm skeptical of "one size fits all" approaches to it. And I think anyone attempting to invest ethically should have respect for the complexity and difficulty of the taskGap's problem[21] For example, Pax World Fund, based in Portsmouth, New Hampshire, says it invests only in companies "that treat their employees, their environment, and their communities with respect". I'm sure it makes every effort to do so, but in an imperfect world, these decisions get mighty tricky.[22] Pax World's largest stockholding is Gap Inc. Friday, Gap (along with some other retailers) lost in its attempt to dismiss a lawsuit accusing it of selling clothes made under sweatshop conditions in the U.S. territory of Saipan. In August, four other defendants in that suit, including Nordstrom Inc. and J. Crew Group Inc., agreed to settle the claims against them by establishing a $ 1.25 million fund to monitor working conditions of their Saipan workplaces.[23] None of this necessarily means that Gap is a bad company, or culpable in the Saipan case. But it does illustrate the difficulty in making ethical investing decisions.
Posted at 12:23 am by lovedragon
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Dec 11, 2009
The key to success: good communication skills
Good communication skills are key to success in life, work and relationships. Without effective communication, a message can turn into error, misunderstanding, frustration or even disaster by being misinterpreted or poorly delivered. Communication is the process by which we exchange information between individuals or groups of people. It is a process where we try as clearly and accurately as we can, to convey our thoughts, intentions and objectives. Communication is successful only when both the sender and the receiver understand the same information. In today's highly informational and technological environment it has become increasingly important to have good communication skills. While many individuals still continue to struggle, an inability to communicate effectively, will hold them back in their careers and in social and personal relationships. The important steps to take in acquiring good communication skills: Know what you want to say and why. Understand clearly the purpose and intent of your message. Know to whom you are communicating and why. Consider any barriers you may encounter such as cultural differences or situational circumstances (gender, age or economic biases). Ask yourself what outcome you want to achieve and the impression you want to leave. How will you say it? We're all aware by now, that it's not always what you say, but how you say it, that counts. Begin by making eye contact. You inspire trust and confidence when you look a person in the eyes when you speak. Second, be aware of your body language, since it can say so much more than your words. By standing with arms easily at your side you tell others that you are approachable and open to hearing what they have to say. If, instead, your arms are crossed and shoulders hunched, it suggests disinterest or unwillingness to communicate. Good posture and an approachable stance help make even difficult communication flow more smoothly. Make sure you speak in a cooperative, non-adversarial tone. Be nonjudgmental. Listen. Communication is a two way street. After you've said what you have to say, stop, listen and look for feedback and clues of comprehension. While the person is responding avoid any impulses to cut them off or listen only for the end of the sentence so that you can blurt out more ideas or thoughts that come to your mind. Respectfully give them your full attention. When they are finished, to ensure that your message has been clearly and correctly understood, ask open questions and encourage discussion. Fine-tune your message if necessary. Reach understanding, agreement or consensus. Once you have had to opportunity to discuss your message and the feedback to it, re-visit the purpose of the interchange. Have you reached common ground, solved a problem or clarified your position? If the purpose was to teach or instruct, have you accomplished your goal? To communicate well is to understand and be understood. Make sure that your message has been received as intended and that any questions or concerns have been alleviated. You can even agree to disagree. There are no guarantees that your communication efforts will be meet with total compliance and agreement. As long as you understand each other, are cordial and respectful, you can still have a successful exchange. More Tips for Developing Good Communication Skills To obtain a better command of the English language (or any other language), expand your vocabulary by reading and writing more. Look up words you're not familiar with. The better you are able to express yourself, the better your ability to communicate. Practice your listening skills. Be considerate of other speakers by waiting until they are done before stating your views. Process what has being said before responding. Learn to understand and appreciate opposing points of view by being open-minded and making an effort to see things from others' perspective. It will in turn, gain you more cooperation and understanding. Avoid trying to communicate when in an emotional state. You lose objectivity and may say something inappropriate or regrettable. Take time to think your position through before speaking. Join an organization such as Toastmasters that encourages you to develop a variety of communication skills, as well as the opportunity to meet new and interesting people. When you take the time to acquire and hone good communication skills you open yourself up to better relationships, more career opportunities and increased self-confidence. You also reach higher levels of mutual understanding and cooperation while achieving your goals with even greater success. All new skills take time to refine, however, with effort and practice you can develop good, even exceptional, communication skills.
Posted at 06:52 pm by lovedragon
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Dec 10, 2009
Music, instead of love for you
Walking in the busy street, my loneliness is more eye-catching, like there is a body of people living outside the illusion. I am afraid of being lonely hearts who find cloudy marks, and only non-stop singing the warmth of the music, their friends have a girlfriend, why I did not, not do not understand love, depends on fate, but it was too lonely miserable tolerance. I'm looking for a girlfriend, give her the best in the world gently and cherish her every smile, every hug, it was more sweet, more beautiful. News for a week without you, I think you want to fast its crazy, if the second mark of the day, I passed seven centuries. Dreamed of you every night toward my arms, saying that this life we are no longer separated, but still did not wake up your trail, remembering the whole body soaked. If you love made a mistake, is destined to endure loneliness; if the wrong to bear the consequences, I would rather face not run away from. Oh ... seven centuries, tears rolling across memory, how I hate to lose your own, just blame the people of the world to love playing too beautiful to be easier than to lose, and why; oh ... seven centuries, all winter , even be punished to the Jedi, hopefully shut our eyes every night is you, I prefer to sleep. Countless tears, I cried several back, illusion and butterflies, stay in this piece of fallen leaves, was weathering the snow, buried in thousands of years ago, I miss the exhaustion of life, only waiting for you there. Memories fade gradually fell next to me, call lights still beat the original picture, let me stay in the transmigration of the edge, and so a light, he saw a certain period of between us, once said that prediction, let him away That moment you become our mark. Who found my world, have had your face. Send a letter does not address such a kind of emotional distance, who stood your songs, what kind of mood, can not say that to me, well quiet rain, is not you secretly weeping, happiness is not easy to , in your background I love you, I can accompany the stars, without more explanation, I'll be with you, I do not want to separate you and once again, how I wish every beautiful, because You ... ... I disguised the, the want to seamlessly feed around you, silently watched the horizon accompanied, riding bicycles, forward marching forward. An intersection waiting for love, you move forward, not back memories of seeing the smiling faces, slowly knocked my keys. I am not willing to let you lonely single, I love you concerned about the heart, the heart is no longer hard to hide do not fear the result, assuming that there is the future, how would you say have been like to tell you that happiness is no longer away, the next intersection you will see that love has a beautiful smile. Love the corner have met who love America; love on the street corner after can have my Lai Pei; love whom it met the corner will not let you cry, and perhaps strangers to let me know when you whom I will not let love tears will not let you shed a tear, and now forever, you are my my beauty. I do not know what to say, I wish to use music to convey my love for you and for your deep thoughts of love, with you love, the greatest joy of my life, I can not do without you, without you I the world will have ... ... the world has been changing the Earth rotated in space and time I have never in your back weak, and when I leaned gently on your ears you just want to say, I just want to let you have tenderness. My love can only let you have one person alone, my soul and the souls of the non-stop waiting for the door in your heart, my hurt and tears come to naught for you stream, hidden in a myriad of little universe, I love you , do you hear me sing you this song is for you in order to prove my existence meaning. Finally, just would like to wholeheartedly and sincerely wish to say to you, I love you must love to Flora opened the birds to sing, love to the Legend of Love for us to nod, love birds flock to the flowers blooming around us, love to the Every rainbow reflected on your beauty, I love you must love to Haikushilan never regret, love the arrival of Health and the afterlife will say no regrets, they take the first sounds of the singing to the beloved girl, really hope you can give me a opportunity for me to love you.
Posted at 12:05 am by lovedragon
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Dec 7, 2009
Valentine's Day is how come from?
Valentine's Day started during the Roman Empire. Under the rule of Emperor Claudius II, Rome was involved in many bloody military campaigns. Claudius the Cruel, as he was known at the time, was having difficulty in getting soldiers to join his military leagues. He believed that the reason was that Roman men did not want to leave their lovers or families. As a result, Claudius cancelled all marriages and engagements in Rome. A Christian priest named Valentine came to defend love in the empire. Valentine began to secretly marry couples despite the emperor's orders. When Emperor Claudius was informed of these ceremonies, Valentine was sent to prison where he remained until his death on February 14 in the year 270. It wasn't until a few hundred years later when Valentine's Day began to develop as we know it. At that time Christianity was beginning to take control of Europe. In honor of his sacrifice for love, Valentine was made a saint. And as part of the effort the Church was making to do away with pagan holidays, Valentine's Day came to replace a mid-February fertility festival called Lupercalia. Today the tradition of honoring St. Valentine continues. The themes of love and fertility taken from the ancient meanings of the holiday have endured and evolved through time.
Posted at 12:27 am by lovedragon
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Dec 4, 2009
Girl: I will go´ Bending her head, she says to a boy, who is a shy guy as she is. The boy, not echoing, only kicks small pebbles with his tiptoes, here and there. After a while, the girl says again, in an oblique voice: I should go´ Raising her head, casting a quick glance at him and diverting her eyesight again, she tangles the fringes of her dress. Inarticulately giving her a response, the boy hides carefully the other hand behind his back again. It seems that there are some tiny sweats on his front, or a shade flurry in his mind of saying something or not. Still a long silence. ^I¨ll go. ̄ Seemingly being angry, the girl bravely raises her head, glares at him, with a shred of gentle encouragement in her eyes. Becoming more anxious, he seems not to know how to jump out of this dilemma; or seems to make crucial decision. Finally, strengthening that hand, turning red, with a little trill, the boy says: ^´for you! ̄ It is a rose, very rosy, keenly flowering, like a mass of fire, burning on the boy¨s hand. The girl smiles, very happily. But immediately, she turns back and runs away, while turns her head and says with smile: ^I will go! ̄ However, after no more than several paces, it seems that something bring to her mind. She runs back to the boy, with red cheeks, ^Enh---- ̄ snatching the rose from his hand, without saying a word, runs away again. Watching her silhouette in distance, the boy smiles´ I stand on the terrain, occasionally witnessing this scene of the prologue of love in the sunshine, and can not help giving a smile from my heart. I recall my own first love, which not make her debut from a bouquet of red rose hiding behind the back?
Posted at 12:11 am by lovedragon
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Dec 2, 2009
Powder room's toilet paper
A girl at the toilet. Because the night is too deep, and she was a person the toilet, and my heart very scared. But because at night to eat something, the stomach is very bad experience, can not their teeth, had to frightened to go. The toilet is just that some schools have a old toilet, girls just squat, not long behind a pair of pale, her hands stretched over. She was shocked to saw Nazhi hand two pieces of paper, one white one yellow. a terrible voice said: "select a white or yellow," girls are afraid, and asked, "Who are you?" "white or yellow," "Why should we choose" "choose one it." female students had no choice but come to a white. voices laugh: "white, yellow seven days for three days. then disappeared." female opened the door, but outside nothing ah. She frightened / busy returning to her hostel, telling my friends this matter, friends laugh at her too nervous, nervous at fault. Her insisted that he was very sober. we discussed a return, the result is not something happens The. However, over the three days, the girls inexplicable way he died. No one knows how she died, her cause of death written on the cause of death unknown Only her fellow students to know how the matter, since then did not dare to the toilet in one night.
Posted at 12:45 am by lovedragon
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Nov 30, 2009
look the blue sky think the moon
Night or so of fine, black curtain yarn-they're starting to. Thought net salvage the cold months, the heart cold.
My thoughts are always so strong when you turn the roaring over the region. A person walking on that street, moderate light and then you have no shadow silhouetted against, bustling plaza no longer wait for your shadow. Do not want to, really really do not want to end so. School on the back of the memory stream and Nazuo bridge, you beside me, rosy cheeks, live in the past two dimple ......
Remember the playground wall of the poplars, row of poplar trees wore the blue sky. Those days I said to myself, fifteen minutes a day to stay can be issued to think about you, because I have a good future, in mind that Langcainvmao. Miss a daze on the railing when you suddenly appeared, orange sunset shines on you and I face, you always look like a hidden bitterness, when I do not understand why you angry, but also do not know that he is going to coax you , when the first time came up with you, with memories of the beautiful scenery.
You still believe that my oath Mody? I said to wait until I have to say "I love you" when the capital would marry you! Hehe ... everything seems to just strike through, can you and I went to an end. I still remember you, you said: "If I do not dare put you ..."。 At that time you also do not know how to punish me. I would now like to tell you, namely, the maximum penalty!
Only now come to know that we do not fear, not an irresistible disaster, is the family's resistance! Turned no enough time to say goodbye. Have gone a good distance before they agree to go back, yes, we have not seen each other cry, dare to go for quite a long look back you find in front of the water vapor suddenly become so thick. When the tears from the face across, kind of strange taste
Posted at 12:32 am by lovedragon
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